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'Be a happier Parent' Course
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got
You can’t change your children’s behaviour without changing your own. Have you heard this expression?
8 one - hour downloadable sessions to share with your partner
The course starts with an introductory video to take you through the NLP presuppositions or beliefs of excellence as they relate to parenting.
NLP & EFT for Parents of pre-school children
This is a 6 module course for those who only want to use the content for their own family and want to have specific age related material.
Delivered as a downloadable course and can be shared with partner/ grandparents and carers. Cost £595
Module 1 Beliefs and values for positive parenting
NLP and the Presuppositions
Basic concepts of NLP and the 10 beliefs of excellence and how they are relevant to parents of pre-school children
Module 2 Compelling Outcomes
What sort of parent do you want to be and what are the skills you have already to achieve this?
Module 3 Communicating effectively right from the start
VAK and the Metaprogrammes
Understand how you and your children process your world for good communication.
Module 4 EFT
Managing emotions using tapping.
Module 5 Art Therapy
Exploring the power of art as a way to understand what’s going on for our children.
Module 6 Drama Triangle
How to avoid rescuing/fixing your children’s problems and instead coach to build self-esteem
I am specifically trained in unlocking birth and childhood trauma using Matrix Reimprinting.
Birth Trauma
I am trained in Matrix Birth Reimprinting which enables me to guide you through your own birth and enable you to bond with your mother if you didn't at the time, even if your mother has passed over. I can also guide you through the birth of your child if this has led to negative memories, post natal depression or anxiety and stress in your child. Again by borrowing benefits, the work you do has a positive effect on your child and how you interact with him or her and of course your mother if she's still alive even though they aren't physically in the session. Here are some of the lovely testimonials I've received for this work.
"Hi Judy, I just wanted to say a big thank you for our session last week. I feel so much more peaceful when I think about the birth now. Before there was this sense of inadequacy like it was my fault things didn't go the way I wanted and anxiety about how things might be if I give birth again. Now I feel like things were exactly how they needed to be and that I was strong enough to give my son the birth he needed. The turning point for me really was talking to my son in the session about how he was experiencing the birth and what he needed in that moment. Going through the process of exploring how the birth could have been different was also helpful because it enabled me to see what it was that I was needing but didn't receive at the time. But it was the conversation with my son that I feel has changed everything for me. Thank you."
"This morning I had a wonderful matrix reprinting session with Judy in which she took me back to my birth experience. She held a beautifully nurturing space as it was transformed from what was a traumatic experience for my Mother and baby me into a loving joyful expansive experience! there was a point where i came to a challenge with visualising my new birth, I lost the colour and feeling of joy and Judy subtly and expertly took the journey to a different direction enabling me to return to the new imprint My heart is filled and i’m so thankful for the session, I can't wait to embrace my Mum, my Dad, My Granny and celebrate the gift of life that we have all received, and now having a wonderful image of an angel midwife - so lovely I can feel the shift from the panic about breathing has shifted, I feel expansive Thank you Judy xoxox"
"Judy and I worked through Matrix Reimprinting with a view to altering the story I carry around my own birth experience. I have always held a feeling that my own birth was scary and traumatic and, as such, there were elements of birth I held a fear of. Judy talked through the process with me thoroughly and guided me beautifully as we actually did the work. I now have feelings of calm around my own birth experience. I have to say, it all "worked" much more quickly that I thought it would! Thank you Judy."
"I arrived for my session with Judy in a stressed state as we're relocating and an estate agent had wound me up. Judy asked how I was feeling... Not listened to, not important, frustrated. We used some tapping techniques (this was new to me) and magically I felt calmer within a couple of minutes. Judy explained that some of my feelings at that time would relate to my childhood self. Very true. I felt unimportant, unloved, like I didn't matter. We worked on comforting my younger self. Also worked on my mum. Having lost her mum when she was 7, she didn't know any better and was doing the best she could having got pregnant at 19. We went further back and talked about my parents and conception to get a pre-pregnancy picture. We had a pause and decided to go ahead with my rebirth. As I was a big baby I thought I might like to come earlier so I'd be smaller (than 8lb) but then decided to be in a lovely warm birthing pool in a cosy room lit by candles, with relaxing classical music playing. My dad was there to support my mum and hold her hand so the birth would be much more relaxed and forceps wouldn't be needed. I birthed myself quickly and easily because I was ready. Dad caught me and placed me onto mum's chest so we 3 could all cuddle up and closely bond together. We breathed pink into us all as I looked into my mum's eyes and we told each other 'I love you'. What a wonderful experience. I cried with happiness and on opening my eyes felt a huge sense of peace. As I neared home, the sky was a beautiful mixture of blue, red, orange and purple. A beautiful day to be born, I thought to myself. Thank you so much Judy."
"Thank you so much for a very special session with the Reimprinting of my First baby's birth which was quite traumatic for me then. You very gently took me through the whole process in a gentle and clear way I was particularly afraid when the baby was starting to get distressed and was fearful for me You very gently guided me to support the baby by adding colour for and love - I very quickly realized that I was scared of being alone in the ambulance - having to travel to the hospital by myself with the belief that I am all by myself you gently encouraged me to tap the fear out and I released the black fear and filled my own body with courage and that of my baby. Then at the hospital I was scared to lose my baby and once again you guided me to talk to my baby and fill him with courage an strength and I guided him to release the cord that was tied around his neck. I filled him up with light again yellow for safety and courage and pink for love and he slowly untangle himself and was ready to be born. at this point I still felt a lot of fear for losing him - I talked to him and he felt strong and able to free himself.
After this my little baby was relaxed and was able to be born relaxed and with ease. I than let the midwife go and was able to see my baby with my husband. I was so happy to see him and he assured me he was well. Although he did not cry he was fine. my husband and I were able to see him. At this point my husband felt scared too and we tapped on his fear of losing both the baby and me and relaxed him too.
We thank went to a safe place outside where there was love grass, we could hear the birds and water - it was beautiful. my husband still felt fear and guild at this point for letting us down. once again we tapped on him and reassured him that all was well. we than spoke to the baby and asked what his belief was and it was he can cope with anything in life. we covered ourselves with a pink blanket and I took the time to tell my baby how much I loved him and how much I appreciate him in my life. We all than had a rest.
Thank you so much for re-imprinting this traumatic time into a happy one with the whole family being made to feel at peace."
- Finding that special person in your life
- Marital problems
- Managing the fallout from a breakup
- Weight loss
- Lack of self-esteem
- Problems conceiving
- Coping with empty nest
'Be a happier Parent' Course
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got
You can’t change your children’s behaviour without changing your own. Have you heard this expression?
8 one - hour downloadable sessions to share with your partner
- What we bring to parenting from our own childhood - do these beliefs help us or hinder us?
- How do we and our children communicate at our best - VAK and the metaprogrammes we run
- Setting compelling outcomes for our parenting
- Overcoming the blocks to success
- Identifying our skills
- The Drama Triangle
- Managing our emotions using EFT
- Your own personalised session or one I think will help you (!)
The course starts with an introductory video to take you through the NLP presuppositions or beliefs of excellence as they relate to parenting.
NLP & EFT for Parents of pre-school children
This is a 6 module course for those who only want to use the content for their own family and want to have specific age related material.
Delivered as a downloadable course and can be shared with partner/ grandparents and carers. Cost £595
Module 1 Beliefs and values for positive parenting
NLP and the Presuppositions
Basic concepts of NLP and the 10 beliefs of excellence and how they are relevant to parents of pre-school children
Module 2 Compelling Outcomes
What sort of parent do you want to be and what are the skills you have already to achieve this?
Module 3 Communicating effectively right from the start
VAK and the Metaprogrammes
Understand how you and your children process your world for good communication.
Module 4 EFT
Managing emotions using tapping.
Module 5 Art Therapy
Exploring the power of art as a way to understand what’s going on for our children.
Module 6 Drama Triangle
How to avoid rescuing/fixing your children’s problems and instead coach to build self-esteem
I am specifically trained in unlocking birth and childhood trauma using Matrix Reimprinting.
Birth Trauma
I am trained in Matrix Birth Reimprinting which enables me to guide you through your own birth and enable you to bond with your mother if you didn't at the time, even if your mother has passed over. I can also guide you through the birth of your child if this has led to negative memories, post natal depression or anxiety and stress in your child. Again by borrowing benefits, the work you do has a positive effect on your child and how you interact with him or her and of course your mother if she's still alive even though they aren't physically in the session. Here are some of the lovely testimonials I've received for this work.
"Hi Judy, I just wanted to say a big thank you for our session last week. I feel so much more peaceful when I think about the birth now. Before there was this sense of inadequacy like it was my fault things didn't go the way I wanted and anxiety about how things might be if I give birth again. Now I feel like things were exactly how they needed to be and that I was strong enough to give my son the birth he needed. The turning point for me really was talking to my son in the session about how he was experiencing the birth and what he needed in that moment. Going through the process of exploring how the birth could have been different was also helpful because it enabled me to see what it was that I was needing but didn't receive at the time. But it was the conversation with my son that I feel has changed everything for me. Thank you."
"This morning I had a wonderful matrix reprinting session with Judy in which she took me back to my birth experience. She held a beautifully nurturing space as it was transformed from what was a traumatic experience for my Mother and baby me into a loving joyful expansive experience! there was a point where i came to a challenge with visualising my new birth, I lost the colour and feeling of joy and Judy subtly and expertly took the journey to a different direction enabling me to return to the new imprint My heart is filled and i’m so thankful for the session, I can't wait to embrace my Mum, my Dad, My Granny and celebrate the gift of life that we have all received, and now having a wonderful image of an angel midwife - so lovely I can feel the shift from the panic about breathing has shifted, I feel expansive Thank you Judy xoxox"
"Judy and I worked through Matrix Reimprinting with a view to altering the story I carry around my own birth experience. I have always held a feeling that my own birth was scary and traumatic and, as such, there were elements of birth I held a fear of. Judy talked through the process with me thoroughly and guided me beautifully as we actually did the work. I now have feelings of calm around my own birth experience. I have to say, it all "worked" much more quickly that I thought it would! Thank you Judy."
"I arrived for my session with Judy in a stressed state as we're relocating and an estate agent had wound me up. Judy asked how I was feeling... Not listened to, not important, frustrated. We used some tapping techniques (this was new to me) and magically I felt calmer within a couple of minutes. Judy explained that some of my feelings at that time would relate to my childhood self. Very true. I felt unimportant, unloved, like I didn't matter. We worked on comforting my younger self. Also worked on my mum. Having lost her mum when she was 7, she didn't know any better and was doing the best she could having got pregnant at 19. We went further back and talked about my parents and conception to get a pre-pregnancy picture. We had a pause and decided to go ahead with my rebirth. As I was a big baby I thought I might like to come earlier so I'd be smaller (than 8lb) but then decided to be in a lovely warm birthing pool in a cosy room lit by candles, with relaxing classical music playing. My dad was there to support my mum and hold her hand so the birth would be much more relaxed and forceps wouldn't be needed. I birthed myself quickly and easily because I was ready. Dad caught me and placed me onto mum's chest so we 3 could all cuddle up and closely bond together. We breathed pink into us all as I looked into my mum's eyes and we told each other 'I love you'. What a wonderful experience. I cried with happiness and on opening my eyes felt a huge sense of peace. As I neared home, the sky was a beautiful mixture of blue, red, orange and purple. A beautiful day to be born, I thought to myself. Thank you so much Judy."
"Thank you so much for a very special session with the Reimprinting of my First baby's birth which was quite traumatic for me then. You very gently took me through the whole process in a gentle and clear way I was particularly afraid when the baby was starting to get distressed and was fearful for me You very gently guided me to support the baby by adding colour for and love - I very quickly realized that I was scared of being alone in the ambulance - having to travel to the hospital by myself with the belief that I am all by myself you gently encouraged me to tap the fear out and I released the black fear and filled my own body with courage and that of my baby. Then at the hospital I was scared to lose my baby and once again you guided me to talk to my baby and fill him with courage an strength and I guided him to release the cord that was tied around his neck. I filled him up with light again yellow for safety and courage and pink for love and he slowly untangle himself and was ready to be born. at this point I still felt a lot of fear for losing him - I talked to him and he felt strong and able to free himself.
After this my little baby was relaxed and was able to be born relaxed and with ease. I than let the midwife go and was able to see my baby with my husband. I was so happy to see him and he assured me he was well. Although he did not cry he was fine. my husband and I were able to see him. At this point my husband felt scared too and we tapped on his fear of losing both the baby and me and relaxed him too.
We thank went to a safe place outside where there was love grass, we could hear the birds and water - it was beautiful. my husband still felt fear and guild at this point for letting us down. once again we tapped on him and reassured him that all was well. we than spoke to the baby and asked what his belief was and it was he can cope with anything in life. we covered ourselves with a pink blanket and I took the time to tell my baby how much I loved him and how much I appreciate him in my life. We all than had a rest.
Thank you so much for re-imprinting this traumatic time into a happy one with the whole family being made to feel at peace."
Clearing childhood trauma
I find EFT Tapping so good for clearing those subconscious blocks that talking therapies don't reach. We can go round and round in circles, trying to figure out why we can't seem to move on. By tapping on specific points on our body and tuning in to where that resistance is and where it has come from (often way back in our childhood) we can clear it and feel free and in flow.
The problems we encounter in our life, occur because we hold beliefs about ourselves, about others and about 'life' in general, that are preventing us from achieving what we want. Those beliefs were formed before we were six years old and you're right, we can't even remember what happened. This is because it was what we call a UDIN. It was:
unexpected
dramatic
isolating
and we had no strategy to cope with it
As a result we went into 'freeze' locking the memory in our subconscious because we could neither fight or flight in that moment. We made a belief or decision at that time about ourselves. It may be that 'I am unlovable' or 'I am stupid' or 'I'm not important' or something similar. We then spend our lives attracting evidence of this belief because it is trapped and we can't access it consciously.
We may also create attachment strategies such as being 'avoidant attached' - keeping ourselves safe emotionally, what we might call 'emotionally unavailable' because we learnt in our early years that we couldn't trust ourselves to love. We might adopt an 'anxious attachment' style where we were needy and constantly needing reassurance that we were loved. This of course pushes the avoidant attached partner away yet we find lots of partnerships with this push me pull you relationship which makes both partners unhappy. The ideal is a secure attachment and I can help you achieve this.
If we didn't get unconditional love as a child, we seek the love of others and can't self-soothe. We put ourselves down, constantly apologise and never achieve all that is possible because we have low self-esteem. I can help with this too. I have had lots of clients who marry, thinking they will get the love they didn't have as a child but soon find that in the hurly burly of parenthood and married life, that their needs are not being met and they even lose sight of what their own needs are.
I have a huge range of skills, expertise, activities and insight to help you with whatever you are struggling with so get in touch for a free consultation to meet me and decide if you'd like to work with me. If you do, then we have an initial 90 minute consultation, at the end of which we form a plan of what we want to focus on, where we want to get to and set up the appointments. You can choose a package of 4 for £300 or 6 for £400.
I find EFT Tapping so good for clearing those subconscious blocks that talking therapies don't reach. We can go round and round in circles, trying to figure out why we can't seem to move on. By tapping on specific points on our body and tuning in to where that resistance is and where it has come from (often way back in our childhood) we can clear it and feel free and in flow.
The problems we encounter in our life, occur because we hold beliefs about ourselves, about others and about 'life' in general, that are preventing us from achieving what we want. Those beliefs were formed before we were six years old and you're right, we can't even remember what happened. This is because it was what we call a UDIN. It was:
unexpected
dramatic
isolating
and we had no strategy to cope with it
As a result we went into 'freeze' locking the memory in our subconscious because we could neither fight or flight in that moment. We made a belief or decision at that time about ourselves. It may be that 'I am unlovable' or 'I am stupid' or 'I'm not important' or something similar. We then spend our lives attracting evidence of this belief because it is trapped and we can't access it consciously.
We may also create attachment strategies such as being 'avoidant attached' - keeping ourselves safe emotionally, what we might call 'emotionally unavailable' because we learnt in our early years that we couldn't trust ourselves to love. We might adopt an 'anxious attachment' style where we were needy and constantly needing reassurance that we were loved. This of course pushes the avoidant attached partner away yet we find lots of partnerships with this push me pull you relationship which makes both partners unhappy. The ideal is a secure attachment and I can help you achieve this.
If we didn't get unconditional love as a child, we seek the love of others and can't self-soothe. We put ourselves down, constantly apologise and never achieve all that is possible because we have low self-esteem. I can help with this too. I have had lots of clients who marry, thinking they will get the love they didn't have as a child but soon find that in the hurly burly of parenthood and married life, that their needs are not being met and they even lose sight of what their own needs are.
I have a huge range of skills, expertise, activities and insight to help you with whatever you are struggling with so get in touch for a free consultation to meet me and decide if you'd like to work with me. If you do, then we have an initial 90 minute consultation, at the end of which we form a plan of what we want to focus on, where we want to get to and set up the appointments. You can choose a package of 4 for £300 or 6 for £400.
4 x 1 hr Consultations
£
300.00
School Workshop
£
250.00
'Be a happier Parent' Course
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got
You can’t change your children’s behaviour without changing your own. Have you heard this expression?
8 one - hour downloadable sessions to share with your partner
The course starts with an introductory video to take you through the NLP presuppositions or beliefs of excellence as they relate to parenting.
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got
You can’t change your children’s behaviour without changing your own. Have you heard this expression?
8 one - hour downloadable sessions to share with your partner
- What we bring to parenting from our own childhood - do these beliefs help us or hinder us?
- How do we and our children communicate at our best - VAK and the metaprogrammes we run
- Setting compelling outcomes for our parenting
- Overcoming the blocks to success
- Identifying our skills
- The Drama Triangle
- Managing our emotions using EFT
- Your own personalised session or one I think will help you (!)
The course starts with an introductory video to take you through the NLP presuppositions or beliefs of excellence as they relate to parenting.
Parenting Course
£
349.00
Self-Esteem Programme
Here is the focus for each live interactive session:
1. Getting to the source of low self-esteem - where and how did it start, revisiting with fresh and mature eyes. Time-Line work
2. Beliefs of excellence, skills and values, transferring what we have to where we need it
3. Setting compelling outcomes and communicating them, body language, language patterns
4. Overcoming limiting beliefs, no failure only feedback
5. Staying positive and managing setbacks
6. Applying what we've learned and getting on track, assess new self-esteem level and define new goals
After the course you can keep in touch to let me know how it's all going and I'll continue to support you.
Here is the focus for each live interactive session:
1. Getting to the source of low self-esteem - where and how did it start, revisiting with fresh and mature eyes. Time-Line work
2. Beliefs of excellence, skills and values, transferring what we have to where we need it
3. Setting compelling outcomes and communicating them, body language, language patterns
4. Overcoming limiting beliefs, no failure only feedback
5. Staying positive and managing setbacks
6. Applying what we've learned and getting on track, assess new self-esteem level and define new goals
After the course you can keep in touch to let me know how it's all going and I'll continue to support you.
Self-Esteem Programme
£
349.00
