When we talk on the phone, this is an opportunity to tell me what concerns you about your child or teen and give me some background both about them and your family. If you decide you'd like to book a first session, I will email you with availability and arrange a time to have a quick chat with your child so they know who they're seeing and can confirm that they are happy to go ahead with the session.
Sometimes I may suggest we have the first session just the two of us because there are often ways I can help you help your child or teen without having to see them. With NLP (neuro linguistic programming) we focus on what we make the behaviour mean, what it triggers in us and how we respond can influence what happens next. Frequently a parent session of 90 minutes can make a huge difference in the family dynamics because as the parent, you have so much influence.
As parents we can find ourselves rescuing, taking over, fixing and feeling responsible for their behaviour. Sometimes we feel it is 'our fault' or 'our responsibility to make them happy'. When we do that, unintentionally, we deny them the opportunity to prove to themselves that they can do things for themselves, we disempower them. This can infuriate a teen who wants to make their own mistakes and it's hard as a parent to stand by and let them.
Also, how we were parented affects how we parent our children so when we clear some of these filters and understand what is yours and what belongs in your childhood, we can address any experiences you had that are not helpful now.
We can also work on any aspects of your child's pregnancy, birth and early childhood that could be affecting how they are now.
If you're not sure how I can help.............
Book a taster session of 30 minutes on zoom
Checkout my free events on anger, anxiety, low self esteem
Here are some of the other situations and issues I've helped clients with that don't relate to parenting.
'Be a happier Parent' Course
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got
You can’t change your children’s behaviour without changing your own. Have you heard this expression?
8 one - hour live online sessions to record and share with your partner
NLP & EFT for Parents of pre-school children
This is a 6 module course for those who only want to use the content for their own family and want to have specific age related material.
Delivered live online and can be recorded and shared with partner/ grandparents and carers. Cost £595
Module 1 Beliefs and values for positive parenting
NLP and the Presuppositions
Basic concepts of NLP and the 10 beliefs of excellence and how they are relevant to parents of pre-school children
Module 2 Compelling Outcomes
What sort of parent do you want to be and what are the skills you have already to achieve this?
Module 3 Communicating effectively right from the start
VAK and the Metaprogrammes
Understand how you and your children process your world for good communication.
Module 4 EFT
Managing emotions using tapping.
Module 5 Art Therapy
Exploring the power of art as a way to understand what’s going on for our children.
Module 6 Drama Triangle
How to avoid rescuing/fixing your children’s problems and instead coach to build self-esteem
Sometimes I may suggest we have the first session just the two of us because there are often ways I can help you help your child or teen without having to see them. With NLP (neuro linguistic programming) we focus on what we make the behaviour mean, what it triggers in us and how we respond can influence what happens next. Frequently a parent session of 90 minutes can make a huge difference in the family dynamics because as the parent, you have so much influence.
As parents we can find ourselves rescuing, taking over, fixing and feeling responsible for their behaviour. Sometimes we feel it is 'our fault' or 'our responsibility to make them happy'. When we do that, unintentionally, we deny them the opportunity to prove to themselves that they can do things for themselves, we disempower them. This can infuriate a teen who wants to make their own mistakes and it's hard as a parent to stand by and let them.
Also, how we were parented affects how we parent our children so when we clear some of these filters and understand what is yours and what belongs in your childhood, we can address any experiences you had that are not helpful now.
We can also work on any aspects of your child's pregnancy, birth and early childhood that could be affecting how they are now.
If you're not sure how I can help.............
Book a taster session of 30 minutes on zoom
Checkout my free events on anger, anxiety, low self esteem
Here are some of the other situations and issues I've helped clients with that don't relate to parenting.
- Relationship struggles
- Body issues including pain and weight
- Lack of self-esteem
- Problems conceiving
- Coping with empty nest
'Be a happier Parent' Course
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got
You can’t change your children’s behaviour without changing your own. Have you heard this expression?
8 one - hour live online sessions to record and share with your partner
- What we bring to parenting from our own childhood - do these beliefs help us or hinder us?
- How do we and our children communicate at our best - VAK and the metaprogrammes we run
- Setting compelling outcomes for our parenting
- Overcoming the blocks to success
- Identifying our skills
- The Drama Triangle
- Managing our emotions using EFT
- Your own personalised session or one I think will help you (!)
NLP & EFT for Parents of pre-school children
This is a 6 module course for those who only want to use the content for their own family and want to have specific age related material.
Delivered live online and can be recorded and shared with partner/ grandparents and carers. Cost £595
Module 1 Beliefs and values for positive parenting
NLP and the Presuppositions
Basic concepts of NLP and the 10 beliefs of excellence and how they are relevant to parents of pre-school children
Module 2 Compelling Outcomes
What sort of parent do you want to be and what are the skills you have already to achieve this?
Module 3 Communicating effectively right from the start
VAK and the Metaprogrammes
Understand how you and your children process your world for good communication.
Module 4 EFT
Managing emotions using tapping.
Module 5 Art Therapy
Exploring the power of art as a way to understand what’s going on for our children.
Module 6 Drama Triangle
How to avoid rescuing/fixing your children’s problems and instead coach to build self-esteem
Self-Esteem Programme
Here is the focus for each live interactive session:
1. Getting to the source of low self-esteem - where and how did it start, revisiting with fresh and mature eyes. Time-Line work
2. Beliefs of excellence, skills and values, transferring what we have to where we need it
3. Setting compelling outcomes and communicating them, body language, language patterns
4. Overcoming limiting beliefs, no failure only feedback
5. Staying positive and managing setbacks
6. Applying what we've learned and getting on track, assess new self-esteem level and define new goals
After the course you can keep in touch to let me know how it's all going and I'll continue to support you.
Here is the focus for each live interactive session:
1. Getting to the source of low self-esteem - where and how did it start, revisiting with fresh and mature eyes. Time-Line work
2. Beliefs of excellence, skills and values, transferring what we have to where we need it
3. Setting compelling outcomes and communicating them, body language, language patterns
4. Overcoming limiting beliefs, no failure only feedback
5. Staying positive and managing setbacks
6. Applying what we've learned and getting on track, assess new self-esteem level and define new goals
After the course you can keep in touch to let me know how it's all going and I'll continue to support you.
Self-Esteem Programme
£349.00
£250.00
